I have had a couple of interviews recently (well, four!!!) where I have come second. The field is usually between 30-80 applicants each time. My skills are completely relevant and rather niche to these positions. I more than adequately fulfil the job descriptions and I have done this role before.
Each application takes me several hours to complete, and each one is individualised application forms I put a lot of time into making relevant. About half the roles allow an additional CV and I got some recent help tightening that up to emphasise my experience and expertise.
Then I spend hours and hour on preparing for the first round, and DAYS on preparing for the final shortlisted interview.
Recently, my interview was five hours drive away. They didn't offer to put me up overnight, so I drove there and back, leaving my house at 4am. Had a presentation to give when I got there, then a gruelling panel interview that I felt/know went very well.
But I haven't heard anything when they said they'd call. Obviously I haven't got it and I am just waiting for the thanks but no thanks email. They haven't even offered expenses/petrol money which is rude really, along with not letting me know.
Arghhh. Is this just a matter of time, considering I am coming second a lot? Should I be putting even more time into the interviews? Am I just not likeable? Or is this the state of things right now?
How do I psyche myself up to go through this again?
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GreyBow · 01/09/2020 10:24
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