Hi @samandolivia
I completed my training from 2013-2016, although I do not have any dependent children.
With regards to the studies, yes it it approximately 50% practical/study. All uni’s manage this differently but for me this meant some blocks of time in lectures 9-5, Monday to Friday with regular assignments due in. Other blocks of time you’d be on placement working full time hours (approx 37.5 hours a week which was usually 3 x 12.5 hour shifts or 5 8-4/9-5 depending on what your mentor worked).
During placements you are still expected to complete written work to deadlines which was difficult! Also during placements you are expected to work the same shifts as your given mentor & there is little to no wriggle room with this as it’s important you work with the same person to get your skills & ability signed off. This could mean working all nights for the whole block or a variety of shifts, but nights are a regular occurrence & are to be expected. I know my colleagues frequently miss out on assemblies & sports days etc. Therefore I would really strongly consider your childcare options.
At other times, for example when working in community or in birthing units you have to be on call overnight if your mentor is. Meaning that they could call you to a home birth etc with no notice. I think you may be able to limit the amount that you do this, however it would limit your experience & may then be hard to get the necessary number of deliveries without this.
Having said all of the above there were a lot of students with children & at one person on my course had 8 children & did manage fine! However she had great childcare support from her partner & older children, as did most of those with children & I have to imagine it would be very difficult without this.
With regards to applying for the course, midwifery is notoriously hard to get into as it is very oversubscribed. What qualifications do you have? If you don’t have the necessary GCSE/ALevels then you will need to study or complete an access course which many people to at college. The entry requirements are different for each uni & you can find them on their websites usually. If you do have the entry requirements you can apply via UCAS!
I don’t want to have put you off because it is a very rewarding career! However it is extremely hard work physically & emotionally, to complete the course & do the job. I say that as someone with no dependents. Don’t get me wrong so many midwives do have children and of course manage perfectly fine! But once you qualify you can’t avoid night shifts as everyone has to do them & even day shifts which usually finish at 7/8pm would be difficult I imagine for childcare.
If it’s something you’re definitely interested in you usually need some sort of work experience for the university to take note of you. You apply via UCAS with a short personal statement so you want to stand out! If you do then they will invite you for an interview so it’s quite different to most uni courses! For experience I recommend trying to sit in on NCT classes - if you email the educators they’re usually happy to help! Alternatively if you can volunteer at breastfeeding support sessions etc that would help too!
If you have any other questions I’m more than happy to try to help as much as I can! We are desperate for more midwives, but I do like to make sure people are aware of the realities! Best of luck if you do apply!