Hoping someone might be able to give me some advice!
I'm a secondary teacher and 34 weeks pregnant so I was told by the council (ie my employer) on Sunday evening not to come in on Monday and to start working from home. I had never even considered that possible until then so to have it suddenly forced on me was quite a shock to the system! I understand why they've done it but I'm really struggling with it.
The idea of 6 weeks of isolation until I give birth (assuming the baby arrives on time which is unlikely) is really daunting for me. I was already worried about feeling isolated on mat leave and about developing PND (I have had previous mental health issues) but was confident that I had a support network to help me but now it seems more and more likely that I'll have to do without that, at least in the beginning.
I've never been great at concentrating on work/uni stuff at home so working from home was always going to be a challenge anyway but now my manager has given me tons of development work to do which is completely overwhelming me and he keeps emailing, texting and calling for updates which I can't really give him.
On top of that, the house is a complete shambles since we're getting the downstairs bathroom redone and we're in the middle of decorating the baby's room, so there's literally not a single room in the house that isn't a total mess. So anywhere I sit to try and work, i just get distracted looking at all the stuff that needs to be sorted out but knowing I don't have time to do it because I have too much work to do, but being distracted makes the work take longer so I have even less time to sort the house!!
Then I have the dog pestering me to be let out every half hour or so which then means I have to clean the mud off him when he comes in, plus I feel guilty for not playing with him more but I really don't have time to. Not to mention the uncertainty of the whole situation so close to becoming a new mum which I was already feeling pretty underprepared for (and of course they've cancelled our antenatal classes). We've brought forward the fitting of the carpet in the baby's room and bought furniture last night which is still in the car since we have no space in the house just now, so at least I'm not worrying about not having a room for the baby, but I still feel nowhere near ready and no time to do anything!
On top of all that, my back is killing me and I don't have anywhere comfortable to sit and work so it's just getting worse which is making focussing on work harder still!
Sorry, that was a really long rant so thank you if you've managed to read it all! Any suggestions? Seriously considering calling in sick at this stage but I can't bring myself to do it since I don't feel sick, just stressed beyond belief! Help?!
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FurbabyMama · 18/03/2020 14:08
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