My DD is in reception and DS is 9mnths.
I couldn't return to my previous job after first DC as they were not flexible at all! I ended up doing care work in the evenings for a while, and then moved to the supermarket, doing a night shift when DH was home from work. I'm due back in 2 weeks.....I'm dreading it, although I want to work, it's a very physically demanding job and very very boring!
I would feel terribly guilty to put DS in childcare for a day time job, and worry how I would manage school holidays with DD as well, but I really want to go back to work, I love being a mum but I'm worried what I will do when they grow up and I've been working in the supermarket for years, will I ever get back into a more challenging job?! I'm bored! I wouldn't want to work full time just maybe 3 days a week, but trying to find something is so difficult as would need to do school run and nursery run if I worked days. Plenty of people work with young kids, and I'm at a loss as to how they do it?
So can you share with me what you do for work, and how you manage childcare, and also if you don't mind, how this affects your finances. Looking at childcare costs I don't see how I would ever earn enough to make it worth it?
Unfortunately I have no family to use for childcare....they live too far away.
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Passthewipes · 15/10/2019 10:10
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