Hi all,
Not sure what topic I should be putting this in but here we go.
So I joined a new company a month ago. I LOVE my new team, great morale and really close. However, I am at the lower end of the pay scale (lowest) and during my first week someone on the team left. I was expected to pay £15 towards their leaving gift, even though I had been in the company for a matter of days. I wasn't asked-an email just flew into my inbox saying along the lines of 'we've bought this present so can you transfer me this amount, here are my bank details'.
Now that really annoyed me. I earn little, I pay an AWFUL lot in travel to and from work and I am saving for a flat. I don't do anything nice for me. all my money goes into savings and travel. I would have been happy to contribute, say a fiver. But it was the expectation.
Anyway I did transfer the money and let It go. And then...this week. Another email comes into my inbox - someone on the team is leaving to have a baby in just over a month. Someone again who I don't speak to often, don't work with closely. I am incredibly happy for her that she's having a baby - what fantastic news and of course I would be happy to contribute. But now they've asked for £25 + from each of us.
I am so upset. I cannot afford to keep putting this kind of money in and not being given a CHOICE. But I fear this is how it is. WHY? Wherever I've worked previously - an envelope has gone round and I have never ever put more that £10 in. Help! What to do!!!
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Gift collection for colleagues - expected to fork out £25+ for someone I barely know :(
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Gson · 09/08/2019 20:16
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