I am probably a feminist.
I realised the inequalities between men and women after having my children. I realised how undervalued my role was as a mother,I realised how little my husband valued my contribution of care as opposed to financial wealth.
It's all very sad, as I know I can not remain married to a man like him and I never would have known this until having his children.
However, I am concerned as we have 2 girls and he denies that there is any sort of inequality between men and women and that infact, men are treated wrongly. I really hope our daughters don't marry a man like their father.
When I mention any sort of pay or pension inequality, he actually gets very annoyed by it and sites how men aren't treated equally by the courts when it comes to child custody etc. I have tried explaining to him that feminists don't want to be better than men but equal to. He says they already are, but infact, men are poorly treated and criticised by women and that if men ever described women as being incapable as women often do in memes on social media etc, there would be hell up.
I have explained the reason these memes exist is because women are fighting back at inequality but he gets frustrated and says I "talk nonsense."
He says that feminists are women who want to put down men.
He doesn't get it at all.
I wish my daughters had a better male role model to look up to.
Is there any way of me getting him to see things more clearly for the sake of our daughters?
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Leopardo · 04/04/2020 14:04
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