m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=VcD9EKeCtIY
“Boys Will Be Boys is my attempt at making sense of society's tendency to blame the victims of sexual assault and rape and make excuses for the perpetrators. It was also my way of dealing with certain events that were occurring in my life at the time. The video itself was intended to express the burden of victim blaming and sexual assault on the victims themselves as the mundane aspects of life go on. A song is just a song but at the very least I hope it will open up difficult yet important conversations between family members, friends, government bodies, organisations and most importantly, boys and men.“
Here are the lyrics
My friend told me of a secret
Told me that she blames herself
You invaded her magnificence
Put your hand over her mouth
Why was she all alone
Wearing her shirt that low
They said, "Boys will be boys"
Deaf to the word no
Your father told you that you're innocent
Told you that women rape themselves
Would you blame your little sister
If she cried to you for help
Why was she all alone
Wearing her shirt that low
They said, "Boys will be boys"
Deaf to, deaf to
Deaf to the word
No, no, no, no
Like a mower in the morning
I will never let you rest
You broke all the bonds she gave you
Time to pay the fucking rent
Her EP Thrush Metal is terrific.
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This song is worth a listen: Stella Donnelly Boys will be boys
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