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Man "glad he kept his penis, so he could become a lesbian".

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Gacapa · 23/03/2018 18:08

Transgender woman reveals her wild Tinder dating history

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I just want to curl up and scream. How have we arrived here? I feel so enraged on behalf of lesbians.

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IntelligentYetIndecisive · 23/03/2018 18:11

He's an effeminate man who's heterosexual.

Good luck finding any lesbians who'll have you, fella.....

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Pratchet · 23/03/2018 18:14

There aren't enough needy women around for all the beta males any more so they have to do this

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AsAProfessionalFekko · 23/03/2018 18:19

Gosh that's a lot of money for a 21 year old isn't it?

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Mishappening · 23/03/2018 18:21

The statement in the article "She was glad she kept her penis" is a bit of a conundrum.

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AngryAttackKittens · 23/03/2018 18:25

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Movablefeast · 23/03/2018 18:25

Isn't it taking the piss to redefine the meaning of Lesbian?

Do gay men think a trans man with a vagina qualifies as a gay man? Would they be a attracted to a person born with a vagina?

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CountFosco · 23/03/2018 18:27

Well to be fair to him at least he says he's open about his history with all potential sexual partners. So I doubt many lesbians will be interested but maybe some straight women will be. But that's a pretty low bar isn't it: must tell sexual partners you have a penis.

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nauticant · 23/03/2018 18:30

I did laugh at this:

but has since come out to her parents 'for the third time', this time as a lesbian

Say what you like about the Daily Mail, but I applaud this formulation:

the 21-year-old, who was born male but identifies as a woman

Compared to most other papers, it's a model of clarity.

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Lobsterface · 23/03/2018 18:35

I normally ignore these articles and threads but...what?! So hes heterosexual then?

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MickHucknallspinkpancakes · 23/03/2018 18:36

Don't Bratz just have a sort of smooth area - down there?

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nightshade · 23/03/2018 18:42

Dear gawd!

Poor me..I've had to be a promiscuous sod and shag anything with two legs cos I'm insecure!

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ErrolTheDragon · 23/03/2018 18:43

Straight man who wants to look like a sexualised plastic toy?Confused


The 3 comments I can see at the moment are commendably restrained.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 23/03/2018 18:48

Is this person not going to have drastically reduced the pool of people willing to have sex with them? To women who are heterosexual but also attracted to a hyper feminine outward appearance. Doesn't strike me as being many women who would be on that list.

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nooka · 23/03/2018 18:55

I find it hard to feel very angry with individuals like this to be honest, my anger is more with the plastic surgeons that operated on him for having no ethics whatsoever. This is a very confused young man who doesn't appear to have malevolent intent and I think they need psychological help. I don't suppose this current persona will make them any more happy than the last two and I suspect only people with trans fetishes are likely to have relationships with them whether they are claiming to be a gay man or a lesbian woman.

So long as they are honest to potential dates, which they claim to be (though who knows what honesty counts as in the current environment) and don't force their way into female domains I wish them better mental health and happiness in the future.

Wanting to have your bellybutton disappear is a new one to me, is that transdoll perhaps?

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ErrolTheDragon · 23/03/2018 19:02

Wanting to have your bellybutton disappear is a new one to me, is that transdoll perhaps

I'd missed that part. Blimey. Nowt so queer as folk. Just hope to goodness Jolene hasn't come across a bratz of the sort someone gave DD on her 5th birthday -the whole bottom half of its legs detached so you could swap its boots.

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TheGoldenBough · 23/03/2018 19:05

Do gay men think a trans man with a vagina qualifies as a gay man? Would they be a attracted to a person born with a vagina?

Not according to the men posting on a thread about transmen on Grindr on Pink News.

Their sentiments were much the same as ours:

Transmen are not men
Keep vaginas out of our spaces

If we could only join forces...

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drinkswineoutofamug · 23/03/2018 19:05

My comment hasn't got past the censors . I didn't mention penis, breast, boobs, vagina, fanjo , all those forbidden words . Only stated a woman doesn't have meat and 2 veg so that's a man.🤷🏻‍♀️

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busyboysmum · 23/03/2018 19:13

Have seen on another website lesbians complaining about pillow princesses who are lesbians who prefer somebody with a penis so they don't have to use a strap-on so perhaps this person would appeal to them.

It's all very odd. He just seems to be an effeminate heterosexual man so like others have said he's really limited his dating pool.

And I don't think the Daily Mail actually are accepting comments on this I think they turn them off on the lot of these things to be honest as I have tried to comment and all sorts of Daily Mail articles and never ever managed to get one through.

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Juells · 23/03/2018 19:32

She's glad she kept her penis Confused

You'd have to feel sorry for this person if you had a heart. How on earth can plastic surgeons do this to vulnerable people?

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ChiaraRimini · 23/03/2018 19:50

So in summary:

Person born male reveals they are attracted to women.

Not exactly news really

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ErrolTheDragon · 23/03/2018 20:19

pillow princesses who are lesbians who prefer somebody with a penis so they don't have to use a strap-on

Er... so they'd be straight (or maybe bi) women?

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BlackForestCake · 23/03/2018 20:20

Have seen on another website lesbians complaining about pillow princesses who are lesbians who prefer somebody with a penis so they don't have to use a strap-on so perhaps this person would appeal to them.

Is this a thing? Straight women identifying as lesbians because it's cooler than being straight and then sleeping with transwomen because they have cocks? If so it totally throws actual lesbians under the bus.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 23/03/2018 20:22

You'd think so, having a sexual preference for men would seem to indicate that they are either straight or bisexual if they also are attracted to women.

Why does the definition of lesbian seem to elude so many people?

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Gacapa · 23/03/2018 20:23

Just think about that sentence. I'm glad I kept my penis, so I can be a lesbian.

I mean, you could dissect that in so many ways, with thousands upon thousands of words. It's so stark. It encapsulates the enormity of this madness. This unreality. This homophobia. Misogyny.

That sentence right there is male violence, entitlement and the pinnacle of female erasure.

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Mxyzptlk · 23/03/2018 20:35

'now I can't wait to find a woman I can take care of and take shopping and spoil.'

This guy is seriously confused in so many ways.

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