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How to make love to a trans woman

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08
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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:10

You don’t have to try very hard to read between the lines, but the writer of this article seems to be saying ‘trans women are women, but even better and more womanly!’

We have out of proportion bodies, frigidity and less fresh vaginas apparently.

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Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:11

I got as far as 'you get to connect with your animal side' and then left.

The point of this post is?

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nauticant · 22/03/2018 10:12

That is so utterly ludicrous I'm struggling to read it through my mirth. Dishonest and gaslighting obviously, but the stupidity is outstanding.

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Ellenripleysalienbaby · 22/03/2018 10:14

Wow, the misogyny is positively dripping from that article.

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:14

No point to it really, it was just so jaw dropping my dumb I wanted to share.

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TempusFugitive · 22/03/2018 10:15

Wow. Their vaginas are better. Their bodies are better proportioned. The experience is more exhilarating!

An experience is only 'exhilarating' if you want it to happen.

Notice the way they talk to men, cis men !! Is much softer and more seductive that the way they tslk to women.

Funny that. Their measure of being a better proportioned woman is a surgical vagina and fake breasts?? They're welcome to all the surgery they want but selling themselves as better fucks than women is so sad and pathetic. They reduce themselves there. That shows how they measure women.
Wow just wow.

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TerfingHell · 22/03/2018 10:15

My vagina is so stale :-(

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MyBrilliantDisguise · 22/03/2018 10:19

Most cis-women have a certain frigidity to them that does not allow them to totally open up during the lovemaking, but there is no such problem with Trans women.

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TempusFugitive · 22/03/2018 10:21

@mybrilliantdisguise, their logic is...... Most women are like women huh!
Being more like a man makes a better woman!?

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:22

I’m sure the majority of trans women don’t actually talk about women this way and this is only one person behind this article, but it’s such a disgusting way to talk about women and their bodies.

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MyBrilliantDisguise · 22/03/2018 10:23

Please don't call them 'cis men.'

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GruffaloPants · 22/03/2018 10:23

Says it all really, doesn't it? Laden with hatred of women, their sexuality, their bodies.

Still, at least my partner is willing to overlook my stale, uncomfortable vagina, frigidity and ill-proportioned body, goodness knows why Grin.

I now demand to see a similar article from the PoV of a sex doll, slating transwomen.

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HomeTerf · 22/03/2018 10:26

Zero mention of female pleasure, which is obviously irrelevant.

"They have a sexual appetite that very few cis-women can compete with.'
Because sex is a competition. Try a bit harder, laydeez (or fake that enthusiasm.)

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BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:26

Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender sex experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions; they are missing out big time

Do they really believe that's why most men won't experience it?

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MyBrilliantDisguise · 22/03/2018 10:27

Does "internalised inhibitions" = "I really don't want to do that?"

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PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:28

If someone wrote an article talking about how trans women’s bodies were obviously masculine under their clothes or that in order to ‘make love’ to them you had to ignore the fact that they still had a penis, and how it’s actually nothing like having sex with a natal woman then you’d be accused of transphobia, but this article is fine as misogynistic views have always been acceptable.

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BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:29

Could it also be that most men never meet trans women, because proportionally there aren't that many of them?

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Orangesox · 22/03/2018 10:29

Wow. That makes for an interesting read. Not quite sure why my husband married me when he could have a fresh vagina housing, better proportioned, permenantly sexually aroused trans-woman Hmm

The term “implanted vagina” struck me as odd.... it’s not an implant, it’s another body part fashioned to make a neo-vagina. It’s not an organ transplant for Christ sake!

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BitOutOfPractice · 22/03/2018 10:30

And yes, most straight men would be put off by a penis (for which they would no doubt be accused of transphobia)

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Momo18 · 22/03/2018 10:31

Wow, I have no words.

So basically women are shy and frigid, trans women however are more woman in bed. Why can't they just be trans without attacking women!?

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deydododatdodontdeydo · 22/03/2018 10:33

That article is so badly written, mysoginist and frankly transphobic, I wonder if it was actually written by a fifth columnist.

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Mouthtrousersafrocknowandthen · 22/03/2018 10:34

A surgical opening accessing a section of transplanted colon.

Jazz Jennings is apparently having one made from the peritoneum as they thought the colon idea was too revolting.

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Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:34

Sorry OP didn't mean to be so tetchy. I hadn't seen your third post.

Solanas' SCUM manifesto

www.ccs.neu.edu/home/shivers/rants/scum.html

Quotes from the article:

To call a man an animal is to flatter him;

Being an incomplete female, the male spends his life attempting to complete himself, become female.

the male is, nonetheless, obsessed with screwing; he'll swim a river of snot, wade nostril-deep through a mile of vomit, if he thinks there'll be a friendly pussy awaiting him. He'll screw a woman he despises, any snaggle-toothed hag, and, further, pay for the opportunity. Why? Relieving physical tension isn't the answer, as masturbation suffices for that.

And regarding that last quote you will not find a heterosexual man on the planet who will have sex with a trans woman.

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