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Hate and Misogyny Is Once Again Silencing Women.

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DoctorW · 20/03/2018 11:34

Women are being silenced. This is rooted in hate and sexism and we must not stand for it.

Don't let others tell you that Terf is just an acronym. It is now used as a hateful slur and is deliberately used to demonise and incite other to hate us.

I'm going to stop legitimating its use and stop writing it in capital letters from now on, it's a word used by others with the same venom and malice like c#nt or b#tch.

This hate is designed to silence us through fear, shame and rejection. Its an age-old tactic used on women and it's happening right here and now in 2018.

I have written this article documenting the many ways women are being intimidated. I was shocked at how bad it really is. Seeing it all compiled in one place is quite sobering. The public needs to know what's happening. Please share if you can.

fairplayforwomen.com/misogyny_hate_silencing/

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MyYoniFromHull · 20/03/2018 11:44

It's unbelievable that women are framed as bigots for wanting to discuss how changes to legislation will impact our rights. Rights that were put in place to protect us from discrimination as a direct result of having female bodies

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Datun · 20/03/2018 11:44

I wish someone would tweet this to James O'Brien, who said he really didn't believe that women were being silenced.

Read from point 3.0 onwards, James, and let's hear you say that again.

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PowderGreen · 20/03/2018 11:47

I agree with the OP. Women need to push back completely against what is going on and this includes we must stop capitulating to the very notion that males are women. It's not a true statement.

We cannot control others calling us these epithets, but we can push back and say, you are not a woman. The irony being that they insist on labelling us, on confirming their identity through forcing language onto us, and then claim we are c&4ts if we do not mirror their self-image.

There are several issues at hand: that there is misogyny that is in full resurrection through this labelling of women; that there is misogyny by males forcing women to mirror their language & to stfu; and that society conveniently bows to these males and demands that women, not men, make space and sacrifice for these men.

We need to say: men are not women, women are not men, gender is performative and everyone is non-binary to varying degrees.

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FeministBadger · 20/03/2018 11:48

Those screenshots really do show what's happening - strangely I've seen many of them before but seeing them all at once and with it broken down into the type of hate and misogyny really makes it obvious. Thanks for the work compiling this - I can't imagine it was an enjoyable task but very important to have a record of it.

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Datun · 20/03/2018 11:58

Thanks for the work compiling this - I can't imagine it was an enjoyable task but very important to have a record of it.

Yes, I echo that. It can't have been a pleasant experience.

Although, I can't help feeling that putting it all in one place has proved rather illuminating!

Shon Faye calls Transgender Trend an ‘Anti-trans crusade front organisation’ and that the guidance encourages conversion therapy and institutional transphobia.

This is in stark contrast to a previous tweet by Shon Faye who summarised their own guidance to school children as ‘suck dick, get tits early‘

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DoctorW · 20/03/2018 12:01

FeministBadger
I only included a tiny fraction of what is out there. I was sickened by it all.

Powdergreen
We cannot control others calling us these epithets.
No but we can be clear that we don't like it and the motives behind it. The general public are bemused by all this. They have no idea the risks we take to speak up. We look like a fringe group that isn't relevant. Just a few lone voices. Whereas in reality loads of women agree with us. They just daren't say it. We are being abused and people need to know that.

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WomenAreObjects · 20/03/2018 12:03

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UpstartCrow · 20/03/2018 12:06

This is a really useful resource, thank you.

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Datun · 20/03/2018 12:10

WomenAreObjects

Reported and screenshotted. Perhaps Dr W would like to put your post in her article!

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OvaHere · 20/03/2018 12:16

Fantastic resource that really highlights what has been happening over the last few years. This needs to be shared widely.

Thank you Flowers

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Nosetothesun · 20/03/2018 12:24

I wonder if sending printed copies would be good?

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LangCleg · 20/03/2018 12:24

A lot of work went into that, DoctorW, thank you.

It is truly chilling when you see it all laid out in one place.

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Minerva1234 · 20/03/2018 12:27

This is utterly chilling.

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Trailedanderror · 20/03/2018 12:33

This is good:
“Women do not approach the subject of sex and gender from a position of power – biological sex has been used, for hundreds upon hundreds of years, to oppress women”

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loobywench · 20/03/2018 12:41

That makes some chilling reading. Can we share the link please?

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Datun · 20/03/2018 12:42

loobywench

The OP has asked for it to be shared.

Disseminate this far and wide. People need to realise what is happening.

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loobywench · 20/03/2018 12:46

Sorry I didn't read that bit. Was too busy reading the link Blush

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rowdywoman1 · 20/03/2018 12:55

What a powerful and horrific account. Thank you for compiling this.
Perhaps some of the best people to receive this would be our currently oh so silent MPs. They may be quiet about the eradication of women but maybe the violent eradication of free speech might help them find their moral compass? or maybe not .

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LastGirlOnTheLeft · 20/03/2018 13:08

And where are the men?? So many women are doing their level best to try to stop this tide of hatred and abuse and facing all kinds of evil as a result and what are men doing??? Fuck all as usual!!!😡

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BiologyMatters · 20/03/2018 13:30

Brilliant piece of work.

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Mouthtrousersafrocknowandthen · 20/03/2018 13:41

Shon Faye Anti-trans crusade front organisation

What is behind this front I ask? Gosh look, thousands and thousands of reasonable people.

Mansterical.

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Ekphrasis · 20/03/2018 14:00

Thank you Dr W.

Only managed a skim but hope to have more time at a later date.

I think you could add Germain Greer (again) to the list of women being discredited after a wee wander onto twitter and the media.

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jeepsinbeepsfoxonbox · 20/03/2018 15:53

Thank you for this. I've been thinking for a little while that nobody really, actually cares if someone is a "terf" (maybe some do but I would argue the majority don't), because, aside from the spectacularly deluded, pretty much everyone is going to hold some views (whether they dare to admit them or not) that qualify as "terfy".

Reading this has made me realise it's just an excuse to target women. A special type, of outspoken, not-afraid-to-challenge-this-nonsense, clever, woman. To put her back in her place.

One of the Twitter quotes, I think it was about ripping out a terf's ovaries, I found particularly chilling because it was so graphic. Sorry that you had to trawl through this bile.

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FlaviaAlbia · 20/03/2018 16:06

This is a brilliant article Flowers It's so clear and reasonable and seems even more so when contrasted to the vindictive rage and hate displayed against women in the screenshot.

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