I'm so sorry that I can't do links but I've just come across this woman by chance. She's a young woman who grew up thinking she was male, had a very sensible mum who told her that her interests didn't mean she was male.
She's on youtube and the video I watched is in the title of this thread. Please watch it. She sums the whole transgender debate up so well.
Thanks for the post WitchBitch. Charlie speaks so clearly about the incoherence and inconsistency of the trans ideology. I was really struck by the point she made about transwomen needing to use female spaces because they are in danger from men, when the gender identification law won't give them that protection; and the hypocrisy of positioning so centrally the danger that transwomen are in from men whilst simultaneously dismissing feminists' concerns about any men, including men who identify as women, having access to female spaces. I've re-peaked!