Why is it so impossible for society to call it what it is? Why should excuses be found to explain a man publicly threatening and intimidating a woman?
He was having a bad day. She would not shut up. She wound him up. Maybe she pushed him. She was sarcastic.
I do not know why I am so upset, we see male violence especislly against women excused daily. Maybe its because there is a video of it and it was so aggressive? Maybe its because women were also blaming the female victim as well as all the men?
I have avoided watching the video of this man on a train threatening a women because I knew it would be horrendous. I did watch it last night and it made me shake with fear. I commented that male violence should not be excused and I have been told: stop judging him I dont know his story Shut up He was only shouting She caused it You are one of those feminazi You are over reacting.
A man can publicly threaten, harass and abuse a woman in public and on video yet still the women is blamed.
I share your frustration CosmicPineapple. Another example was when the CCTV was released of the jogger who pushed a woman he was passing onto the road, into the path of an oncoming bus which only narrowly avoided her by swerving, on Putney Bridge (he's still not been caught either). She was just walking to work when a man chose to do that, yet many commenting were trying to blame her, saying she must have done something, playing the video over and over to freeze one frame to claim she tried to trip him up (complete nonsense) - the desperation to blame a woman and excuse a man for male violence amongst many was quite disturbing. As in your example, something can be on camera yet many will still seek to do all this. Thanks for commenting and challenging it - there will be others reading who are heartened by you doing so!
It's shit, isn't it? What does a man need to do to get caught? It's on camera, doesn't matter. He admits it (ala trump)... doesn't matter. It's always a woman's fault. And if all else doesn't work, there will always be a woman somewhere in the world who has done it too - just go scouring the world for her and there you are... all set with the most infallible excuse of them all apparently!
I wish I didn't agree with this, but I do. I can't see an end to it, particularly when we are not allowed to mention it without being told that it's meeeean to the men who don't do it. It's doing my blood pressure no good to keep seeing NAMALT, or women do it too. How can we fight the problem when we aren't allowed to name the problem?
50% of the population commit 90% of the violent crimes. And thats only the recorded incidents. If women were as violent as men we'd be kept under curfew or medicated.
DJ When women were committing crime in order to get the vote they were put under curfew and treated as if mentally ill and violently attacked as well for example force feeding.
And that was over a hundred years ago! Nothing has really changed. The abortion law is a case in point, two doctor's have to sign and it remains a criminal act if the law is not strictly adhered to.
I hate excuses for violence of any kind and what really gets my goat is people declaring pacifism and yet ignoring violence against women.
