I debated posting this in AIBU as I'm really not sure. I couple of time recently I have been joking around with two different male friends over text. All quite innocent and nothing offensive from me. It has all been very lighthearted but they have both at times replied 'bitch'. I'm not at all against swearing, in fact I'm a fan of it quite often but being called a bitch, even in a jokey way, doesn't seem right to me. I politely challenged one friend and he apologised profusely but now a second friend has said it and I do feel that it is slightly derogatory.
I can accept being told that I am overreacting, and I'm not sure why it makes me so uncomfortable. Any opinions before I mention that I don't appreciate being called a bitch, even as a joke? I wonder if it bothers me that it may be seen as commonly acceptable to refer to a female friend as a bitch in jest, whereas I wouldn't call them a bastard or a wanker
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Rustypaperclip · 08/06/2017 22:37
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