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Feminism: Sex & gender discussions

Ched Evans explains to women how to not get raped

143 replies

Collidascope · 18/05/2017 09:54

www.dailypost.co.uk/news/north-wales-news/ched-evans-warns-women-getting-13052701

We just need to not get drunk apparently, as genuine rapists will prey on us if we're hammered. Well, that's a relief. I thought there might be a bit more to it than that, but it seems not.

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AssassinatedBeauty · 18/05/2017 09:57

What a vile man he really is. Why does anyone give him the space to spout his odious views? (I know that it's because his vile story is click bait, but urgh).

OhHolyFuck · 18/05/2017 09:59

I'm too angry for proper thoughts, I'll come back

PoochSmooch · 18/05/2017 10:02

So glad we've got that sorted out. Thanks Ched! He's such a clueless twat. Absolutely zero insight into how women think and what the world is like for us.

No doubt his fan club will be along shortly to explain why he's right, though.

DeleteOrDecay · 18/05/2017 10:02

I was literally just about to post this. He is the last person who should be advising women on how to conduct themselves

"I also think that women need to be made aware of the dangers they can put themselves in because there are genuine rapists out there who prey on girls who have been drinking."

As opposed to those pretend rapists who happen to fall into the vaginas of drunk comatose women?^
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"I feel like we were both victims."

The irony. I would laugh if it wasn't so fucking tragic.

AssassinatedBeauty · 18/05/2017 10:04

Has it not occurred to him and his followers that all of his troubles could have been avoided if he had treated the woman that night as a full human being, rather than a convenient set of orifices to penetrate? If he had looked after her and taken her home, made sure she was ok, rather than prioritise his need for an orgasm? That's what men need to be taught. Look after vulnerable people that you meet, rather than look to how you can use them for your own sexual satisfaction.

Collidascope · 18/05/2017 10:17

"A lot of work needs to be done in relation to consent because I definitely think that the police have an agenda to find ways to charge people and the easiest one is the drunk one."
"I also think that women need to be made aware of the dangers they can put themselves in because there are genuine rapists out there who prey on girls who have been drinking."

So, according to Ched, work needs to be done on consent not because many men simply don't care if they've got consent, not even because some men assume consent where there isn't any, but because the police will use lack of consent to stitch poor men up. Well, I'm glad it's been cleared up that it isn't the rapists' fault, but the police's and the "girls'".

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whoputthecatout · 18/05/2017 10:23

Either he is in a state of unprecedented denial or genuinely has zero insight. Either way he is knob of the first order.

ShotsFired · 18/05/2017 10:34

I just came here to post that. I don't even know where to begin.

MrsGWay · 18/05/2017 10:54

He isn't very clever is he. The point is a drunk woman cannot really consent so the police aren't trying to stitch anyone up. We easily acknowledge that drink inhibits rational thought in other ways, so it isn't hard to understand is it?

The number of people who don't understand consent astounds me and this person has just reinforced (or justified) their misunderstanding. I'm not sure this is going to change either as a lot of men would have to come to the realisation that they have raped in the past.

michelle303 · 18/05/2017 10:54

I can't.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 18/05/2017 10:57

Let's all make Ched Evans shaped voodoo dolls and stick needles in the balls.

PoochSmooch · 18/05/2017 11:05

it does raise the interesting question that as he's apparently so unclear on what consent actually is, how does he know he isn't a rapist?

Snowdrifthill · 18/05/2017 11:07

victim blaming of the most depressing order. He has the thickest skin imaginable.

Stormtreader · 18/05/2017 11:08

I'm pretty sure that raping someone makes you a genuine rapist, there isnt an entrance exam or official certificate or anything.

SirVixofVixHall · 18/05/2017 11:12

Yetanotherspartacus- yes!

user1495096175 · 18/05/2017 11:13

women drinking does make them more vulnerable, it shouldn't, but it does.

I firmly believe the responsibility is for men not to rape, but i was a teenager off my arse drunk on a night out and I accept some responsibility for what happened to me. If i hadn't put myself in a vulnerable position i wouldn't have been attacked

badhotfanny · 18/05/2017 11:14

What a cunt he is.

callmehannahbaker · 18/05/2017 11:15

Fuck.

olderthanyouthink · 18/05/2017 11:19

But... what about the faux rapists?

sarahconnorsbiceps · 18/05/2017 11:20

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BandeauSally · 18/05/2017 11:27

This man has to be one of the stupidest and luckiest bastards of all time. Second only to trump. He really defies belief.

BandeauSally · 18/05/2017 11:29

I would love an interview with this creep, aired live on TV where he faces a panel of women like the ones on this thread where we asked him all the questions we are posting here and where he had no chance for his advisor to prep a response.

Terfing · 18/05/2017 11:29

Fucking hell! It's like Jimmy Saville giving advice on babysitting!

How dare he? I mean really!

Who is giving this scum PR advice?!?

chickensaresafehere · 18/05/2017 11:31

Words fail me

Laurapalmer90 · 18/05/2017 11:38

Absolutely vile. How dare he call himself a victim?

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