That video annoyed the shit out of me. The way he dismisses women's perspectives. Makes no mention of women being an oppressed and exploited group ("it's one group imitating another group," as if there's no power differential). Says we should listen to women's views but then, as a man, tells us that most of us women don't have a problem with drag.
I looked at the next video this one linked to, about the banning of drag in the Glasgow Pride parade (to ensure a safe space for trans people who might find it offensive), and it is interesting as a contrast. He's defending drag in this one, too, but seems much more able to empathise with the view of a 'transwoman': "there are any number of reasons why trans people might have a problem with drag, and that's totally legitimate... Especially when that man gets to go home, put the wig back on the shelf, and enjoy all the privileges of being cisgender."; "if my gender identity was under assault every day, I can see how watching cis performers twist and play with gender for the entertainer of cis audiences, could feel at best thoughtless, and at worst, cruel." Funny how these insights didn't occur to him when considering whether women who are offended by drag might have a "totally legitimate" point.
Then he explains how "we're all in this together" because the LGBT community are the people who break the rules about how men and women are "supposed" to be, and risk being punished because of it, "trans people most of all."
I think women just do not exist as human beings in this smug, satisfied man's consciousness. He can empathise with another male who considers himself a woman, but not with actual women. He thinks "cis privilege" is a real thing, but the concept of male privilege doesn't get a mention in considering how women might feel about the performer who can play to stereotypes of womanhood for the amusement of other men and then go home and "take the wig off." He applauds the LGBT community for breaking out of the rigid constraints of "how men and women are 'supposed' to be" [there's a word for that - it's 'gender'], and says that trans people "most of all" risk being punished for doing so. He demonstrates no awareness - zero - that generations upon generations of women have tried, or failed, or never had a chance, or succeeded in struggling free of gendered expectations if they wanted anything more from their lives than second class citizenship and domestic servitude. And that they (we) ALL 'risk punishment' for doing it, and that countless women have been and are being attacked, often killed, for not being some man's idea of how a woman should be.
This is what it comes down to for me. I never had a problem with transgenderism until I saw the gross combination of contempt and entitlement that so many transactivists display toward women and womanhood. I never had a problem with drag, until I started listening to men explaining why it's nothing at all like blackface. They don't recognise or value our humanity at a gut level. They don't recognise that we have the shit end of the gender stick. And when we point it out, they do not care.