I'm not 100% sure if this is for feminist chat but I find myself being annoyed and equally concerned that women often refer to sex as DTD.
I have seen it so many times on TTC threads, and in someway I do understand that it becomes a bit of an effort (2 years no live births 7 miscarriages) it's hard but when TTC, to call it a deed? It's a phrase I guess but it doesn't sit well for me or my partner soon to be husband. He is appalled by this term, he hates the idea that it's a thing we just do.
But what really concerns me is that Ive seen more recently women ask AIBU my partner is doing XYZ and why is he doing this when we DTD once a week.
These women are thinking it's a duty to "DTD" and I just want to say no! No it's not, you should do it because you want to.
You make love, have sex, fuck because you want too - not because it's a deed! Or duty!
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Doing The Deed
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PenguinsandPebbles · 13/12/2016 03:30
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