This started as a reply to a post on another thread (not a thread started by me). I don't want to upset anyone by theorising in a support forum so am posting my ponderings here.
My brain is not at optimal functioning to rephrase everything, so here is part of my reply:
"OP is understandably and justifiably frustrated and distressed and some posters are seeking to justify shoddy treatment and the smoke-and-mirrors operation of MH services. Which obviously makes the OP more frustrated and distressed.
It baffles me that an online community which appears to encompass thoughtful discussion, criticism of existing power structures/services/wider system, and has many strong feminist viewpoints/posters, should be so lacking in any kind of understanding support about how crappy the mental health system can be. Or, dare I say it, any kind of vaguely antipsychiatry/survivor movement type experiences/thinking/feeling."
At this point I realised this was a discussion to be had elsewhere. Personally, I have found it immensely helpful to look at alternative ways of viewing things to the narrow medical model of psychiatry. To realise that others have similar experiences of the system, similar criticisms or frustrations or alternative viewpoints encompassing the wider context. Even if I am very distressed, talking to someone who understands generally ends up in a lot of dark humour and discussion of the sociopolitical context. Especially helpful when things like gender role expectations, male on female violence and control, and issues around poverty and homelessness form part of the issues.
To be honest, if someone had started talking to me about the things I now agree with (including feminism!) in the past, I would have been polite but inwardly patting them on the head, trying not to dislodge their tinfoil hat. So I do understand others not understanding in general... but so surprised to see it on Mumsnet, where issues are normally pulled apart with alternative viewpoints argued.
I hope I'm making sense, and hope this is the right place to ask...
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OnceThereWasThisGirlWho · 14/07/2016 01:16
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