I am a 40 yr old married woman wearing a wedding ring. Tonight I went to a business dinner. I made an effort to wear a dress, make up and heels which is unusual for me. I just felt I should look presentable for a black tie occasion it was in no way a bid to attract male attention. Dress was knee length and high neck.
I attended alone.
No less than 3 men propositioned me fairly overtly for sex!! The 1st it was just getting too close, flirtatious comments, putting his arm over the back of my chair, knee touching at dinner, hand on my back sliding down and I gave him the brush off. The next one after dinner tried to buy me drinks and fairly heavily hinted he had a hotel room available so I left. The last guy on the train offered to share a taxi and then started pawing me and suggesting I go back to his for a 'massage' despite my saying I was going home to my DH and kids.
I utterly despair. This is the 1st time I've been out without DH in ages to what was supposed to be a professional environment and I feel like a piece of meat.
Am I doing something wrong? I am beating myself up about the taxi share guy especially. We had both missed the direct train and it saved us each 20 quid. It never entered my mind he had any other motive. I am such a fool.
Why does it have to be this way? Why can't I go out and network like all the men in the room without getting hit on?
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am I naive or putting out the wrong signals or do men take advantage?
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mamadoc · 12/11/2015 02:41
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