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Someone just shared this on my timeline. Just don't even know where to start with it <picture included, grim but not graphic>

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EduCated Tue 12-May-15 10:16:16

I know I shouldn't share it further, but I am just sat here shock and angry and just don't even know where to begin with it all. A woman I went to uni with has just shared this all 'lol'.

The sexualisation of dummies and lollies, and children, the idea that girls/women are in training for sucking dicks and the inevitability of it, the creepy coercive overtone with the 'shh...its ok'.

Genuinely making me feel a bit grim. Have reported to FB, though don't expect anything to be done.

The person concerned has two small children, both recently pictures with dummies. I just don't understand how anyone could look at that and think 'lol'.

JohnFarleysRuskin Tue 12-May-15 10:17:59

My God. I'm with you op. Fucking hell.

EduCated Tue 12-May-15 10:29:43

I just keep swapping between shock and angry and sad and back again.

It's hardly like its the first shitty FB picture I've seen, but this one has really got to me. Feel useless somehow that I can't do more than report and delete said 'friend'.

funnyossity Tue 12-May-15 10:32:57

It's the shhhushing that's really crap!

I would have to judge the sender to be an brainwashed idiot. And I do try not to judge!

GinAndSonic Tue 12-May-15 10:33:23

Fucking. Hell. Id be ripping into them tbh, thats so wrong.

SchroSawMargeryDaw Tue 12-May-15 10:39:36

That is awful, yuck! angry

ShadowFire Tue 12-May-15 10:41:44

shock shock

That's pretty grim. Not at all funny.

Meandyouandyouandme Tue 12-May-15 10:44:52

That's awful, though could apply to boys/men as well as I can't see anything specific to women. It's just the sexualisation of children that it implies angry

Lj8893 Tue 12-May-15 10:44:53

Ohh that is vile!!! I hope none of my Facebook friends share it as I will tear them to shreds!

TheCountessofFitzdotterel Tue 12-May-15 10:46:21

How revolting.

BuffyNeverBreaks Tue 12-May-15 10:46:35

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

MrsWooster Tue 12-May-15 10:47:38

defriend and tell her why

Golferman Tue 12-May-15 10:48:43

Jeez, that is absolutely awful what possesses people to put such pictures up on FB?

EduCated Tue 12-May-15 10:49:01

Meandyou It could, though I'm highly doubtful it's the intention.

Twirlwirlywoo Tue 12-May-15 10:50:52

Geez! I am not usually offended easily but yep! That is disturbing. Just wrong on so many levels.


YorkieButtonsizeMen Tue 12-May-15 10:51:17

Jesus sad

Can you write something under it like 'I really feel I have no other option than to defriend you after you shared this. Can you not see how bloody horrible it is? I'm sorry.'

then defriend. Or not depending on her response.

puts it out there to anyone else who sees it, iyswim.

Maybe that is all you can really do.

ClaudetteWyms Tue 12-May-15 10:53:15

^^I'd say something like that, but without the "I'm sorry" bit. It's vile, really really awful.

Branleuse Tue 12-May-15 10:57:22

gross. delete picture and change your settings so noone can post on your wall except you

CrispyFern Tue 12-May-15 11:05:56

Did she get it off a paedophile Facebook group?

JohnFarleysRuskin Tue 12-May-15 11:06:48

You could say: 'Who the fuck would like this? Jimmy Saville?'

EduCated Tue 12-May-15 11:28:33

Bran It wasn't posted on my wall, thank fuck, put showed up in my timeline as she had posted it. M

I had hit delete pretty quickly so sadly no chance to say anything now. It's made me really angry.

Betsyblue Tue 12-May-15 11:31:21

Absolutely revolting.

DepthFirstSearch Tue 12-May-15 11:35:14


Meandyouandyouandme Tue 12-May-15 12:28:41

Sorry, I know saying it could apply to boys makes it no better. It's just horrifying, can't imagine why some people think this is funny.

thehumanjam Tue 12-May-15 12:35:29

You have to challenge her on it and tell her exactly why it's wrong. Quite clearly she needs educating on this issue.

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