So dd2 is 13.
my dd and her female friends have actually called a meeting with the school nurse/psychologist at school last month because they are sick of the boys in their class making comments about them that are vaguely/overtly sexual. Things like out on a school tour, taking photos of a victoria's secret window display, taking photos of fully dressed female classmates (like in coats) and making comments on the photos like "nice side boob". Not all of the boys but many.
Today, there was a jug of lemonade and one of water on each table at lunch. the kids do clean up. One of the boys in her class (small class - 30 total), took two jugs handed them to her friend and said "hold these Amy, will you". she took them without thinking and then another boy went up to her immediately and said "nice jugs"
Her friend is about the only girl in the class who actually has breasts/bust at this point.
I just get so so depressed about this. My dd is at the point where she gets angry and does something about it (and we do too - dh is about to email the school) but I just wonder will it ever end? Will there always be some asshole objectifying women and making sure their space is sexualized. I can't imagine my son doing this - but I bet the mothers of those sons (I know both of them) think the same. what goes wrong?
When we discussed this with dd's older sister and brother, both agreed the guys were awful but neither were surprised.
Sorry this is a bit rambly but that incident today wasn't major (a friend in one of the highest ranked public high schools in the country - not just our state - had a dd being scarily stalked by a classmate who had a "crush" on her. the school's response was "couldn't she just be nice to him" while she feared for her life.) but just depressing.
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sick of low level crap still continuing
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Canyouforgiveher · 08/05/2015 03:15
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