I'm a member at a local leisure centre; gym, swimming, classes and health suite.
The health suite comprises sauna/spa pool/solarium and seemed a great way to relax after a hard swimming session recently.
I'm a pretty confident woman (or so I thought), I don't have hair of snakes, but need to get this out.
I train alongside men, I have male friends, I live with one, I have somewhat successfully (IMO) raised two of my own...so why, when I tried to walk past the spa pool to access the sauna the other day, did I feel so threatened?
It was bloody awful, there was a group of men in the pool, very loud, all sitting with their arms stretched out - even though there was plenty of room, there wasn't IYGWIM. They were swearing, loudly. I use curses all the time, but again, I felt threatened. I went into one of the other rooms, only to be joined by some other patrons, who were also loud, cursing and basically making the whole experience less than pleasant. I closed my eyes, and stayed my time in there, trying to 'brave it out', but it left me feeling really almost vulnerable.
What saddened me more was at the bottom of one of the doors was sheet of pink paper which read 'women only sessions - Thursdays 8-10pm', and after reading this, I felt dismissed. As though I was being told if I didn't feel safe, I should go then instead.
Not even sure what I want to gain out of this thread, so thanks for reading.
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Talk me through why I felt threatened, please?
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JennyOnTheBlocks · 03/02/2015 13:22
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