Selfishly interested in what to do in the future for our DD. We may have a choice of schools ahead of us and single sex vs co-ed will be a big choice to make. I've posted on the Education forum, but there is a "feminist" side to this choice I'd love to read your opinion on.
I've read plenty of studies with look at academic and socio-economic outcomes, including longitudinal surveys. There seems highly divided opinion on what works best given the gender effects on curriculum choices and the way that children learn in differing classes. Opinion ranges from single sex is better, co-ed is better but also includes neither is that relevant to success and future wellbeing.
Reducing it down (and therefore missing whole swaths of the debate), I can see two side to an argument of "what might be best for a girl":
Single sex
- allows freedom and self-determination and confidence to grow in part because boys aren't there to aggressively dominate or disrupt
Co-ed
- reflects the real world from an early stage which will develop the resilience and determination to thrive despite boys/men
Or actually it doesn't matter at all and other factors matter much more.
Bluntly, as a feminist would you send your DD (assuming she agreed!) to a single sex school or not or would you be indifferent and, most importantly, why?