My DS has just turned 3. He has finally given up breastfeeding so we've instituted an extra story before bed instead, and I've bought two "special" big books of traditional fairy stories which we use for this. I was really looking forward to him learning all the traditional tales, but my god they are overwhelmingly and depressingly sexist! Especially in their abbreviated versions for small children, which lose quite a bit of the nuance anyway.
I'd previously made a real effort to ensure his books were gender neutral, and had renamed a few characters as "she" when obvious instances of sexism arose (Dear Zoo, anyone? Brave Firemen?). But it's a lot harder to do that with traditional tales, without mangling the story beyond recognition. Does anyone have any suggestions for fairy stories which aren't full of princesses waited to be married, or men doing fighty things and rescuing damsels? Or do I just give up on these and go back to modern stuff?
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Feeling uncomfortable with traditional fairy stories
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Poofus · 29/10/2014 11:54
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