Just received a text from our local children's centre advertising a weekend event for Dads and their offspring. They get to build a bug hotel, learn kung fu and eat sausage sandwiches.
Every sodding week I sit on a dusty church hall floor with my DD, playing with ancient toys, doing simple crafts like painting and drawing with chalks. The kids get some fruit and a drink of water whilst we all sing.
Where's my bloody sausage sandwich? Where are my cool activities?
I am mad because I don't get 'bribed' into doing groups with DD, I do them for her and I'm expected to do them for her too. I do them regardless of how dull they can be for me. It isn't about me. I come home dying for a cup of tea because I'm not allowed one there for health and safety reasons.
If I don't do stuff with DD I am at fault. The message I get from the above event is that the activity has to be 'worth' the Dad going to spend time with his children.
So yet again, Dads equal fun and Mums equal the day to day drudgery.
My DH spends lots of time with our DC so I'm not having a rant at men, just at the idea that men 'need' this sort of event to be with their children.
I get that some Dads will benefit from this, and obviously all the children who go will love it. I think if it was offered to ALL parents I wouldn't be bothered at all.
Anyway, rant over. I feel better for getting it down.
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JimmyCorkhill · 15/09/2014 11:22
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