So today on the way home from school some men shouted 'nice tits' and discussed that I was a 'milf' as I cycled past them with my three year old dd in bike seat and six year old ds4 on his scooter alongside me... Lovely I know.
I ignored them but ds4 asked why they said it and what milf meant.,.
A conversation I really wanted to have with him... Not. But rather than not answer I thought it was better to explain in an age appropriate way what the men meant, why they said it and why their behaviour wad wrong.
We have always been open with the madthings re sex etc when they have asked, I would rather explain appropriately than have them learn in the playground and with five kids there has been much discussion of pregnancy, birth etc. Ds1 was actually at dd's birth and cut the cord. We are relaxed around nudity etc so all round fairly laid back I guess.
I am comfortable with our parenting style in this respect.
But I tweeted everydayfeminism about today's events and a few people are questioning/arguing that I should not have answred ds4. Apparently children don't need to know about sexism...
My take on is is that if it were a racist comment I would explain it and explain racism and sexism is no different iyswim?
I have four boys and it's really important to me I raise them to be good men! So them knowing and understanding g sexism is part of that.
So what would others do? Do you talk to your kids about sexism? Is 6 too young? How can we make sure we raise our kids to do different?
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discussing sexism with children, explaining sexist comments wwyd?
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5madthings · 10/09/2014 20:24
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