I have a DS and a DD.
I tend to gravitate towards blues/greens so when I had my boy, the colours worked for me.
DD has a real mix of colour in her wardrobe. We've embraced pink but equally, we've had plenty of looks from strangers who flounder because her outfit doesn't scream GIRL! This isn't through intentional challenging of gender colour stereotypes; rather I consciously choose clothes which will allow her to rough and tumble in the park as much as her older brother. They both wear dark, washable outer layers.
I feel casually proud though when we cause that confusion. And DS has only just, now he's started school, begun to comment on colour/gender (although it's rare and he still prefers the pink bowl at breakfast :) ).
And yet. I can't think of an occasion, ever, when DS has worn pink. If he asked I wouldn't stop him. And I suppose the difference is for him to wear pink, I would need to buy him actual girl stuff - I don't dress DD from the boys department.
How important do you consider this gender identity through colour to be? Does it impact on the clothes your children wear? Do you think it's different for boys and girls and how does that lie with your feminist self?
I'm not quite sure why I've been thinking about this quite so much recently!
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AnotherMonkey · 08/03/2014 23:05
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