Been here for years and recently name changed. Opened our own business last January with my husband ( male dominated job )
Have just started in the last few weeks reading through all the threads here and downloaded a few books which I am reading. I realise I am shamefully uneducated and have in the past been unable to articulate or argue my point properly IYKWIM?
So anyhoo husband mentioned in the passing that a rep had been in with calendars and he'd been given a couple... brought one home for the children for their bedroom and said he'd put the other one up in the tea room at work wink wink??
It's obviously a calendar of naked women. He knows how i feel about the way women are portrayed and exploited but says it's ' only a calendar' and no big deal. The guys need a bit of morale boosting and it's harmless. WTF??? Men need to have a naked female bodies to look at while at work?? Really??
I don't agree and told him to remove it. Nothing else mentioned and when it was brought up again turns out it's still there.
Am I being unreasonable in expecting him to take it down or is it really ok in that kind of work place in this day and age. I don't feel it is but I am struggling to tell him why ( not that I feel like I should have to explain myself to him!!!)
So long and short is i have told him that if it doesn't come down I will be in first thing Monday to take it down. Always thought he agreed with me on these issues and there's no porn etc in our home and he's never been to lap dancing but he thinks the calendar is ok?
Maybe it is ok and i am blowing it up out of all proportion!!!!
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newme2014 · 01/02/2014 08:43
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