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Am I being over-sensitive? If not, help me write an email back!

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mirai Sat 17-Nov-12 04:32:21

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I don't think you are being over-sensitive and definitely think you should write back. No idea how to phrase it though. Sure someone who has a way with words will be along in a bit.

mirai Sat 17-Nov-12 15:06:16

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grimbletart Sat 17-Nov-12 15:28:24

If you want to email I think I would do it in a sort of jokey way. For example..

My husband and I were a little bemused by your letter addressing Dear Mr... etc. as we were under the impression that marriage involves two people.

We realise that the concept of marriage has changed somewhat in recent years but were not aware that a man could now be married without any other person involved. Clearly we must have missed something, unless there is a new security policy decision to make one of the two passport holders invisible.

IF so, we are somewhat concerned as invisibility could cause difficulties on presenting her passport, especially when it comes to her photograph.

Yours etc.

Mr x and Mrs X (who was not invisible when she last checked and would rather like to be acknowledged as actually existing).

BelleCurve Sat 17-Nov-12 21:24:08

I think you should write back and explain there has been an error in their letter.

I had the same issue with HMRC with a tax bill for both me and (now-X) H.

Funnily enough, they had no problem taking my money!

It can be a pain, but my little bit of feminist activism is to take a zero tolerance policy on this sort of thing.

It is amazing the number of times the wrong title is used, i.e. they pick the one they think you are without asking.

SilentMammoth Mon 19-Nov-12 23:24:31

Our bank did this.

Yes Santander, I'm looking at you. I went into the branch and had a hissy fit in public.

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