my local newspaper ran an article this week telling of how pregnancy outside of marriage was dealt with in the late 1600's and 1700's.
it is titled "when unwed mothers lost more than benefits" (no mention of the unwed fathers!!) and starts with
"this month Iain Duncan Smith, secretary of state for Work and Pensions complained that problem families on benefits have too many children. But the problem of unmarried mothers and absent fathers (implying that families on benefits are all made up of unmarried mothers and absent fathers?) is not a new one as scholars trawling old archives of (my local paper) well know.
Nowadays lone teenage mothers and their children receive state financial support and accommodation, (do they? all of them? really? news to me- i thought you had to apply and qualify for it) although due to recession these provisions are soon to become less generous (generous?) "
it then goes on to say at a later point in reference to pregnancy occuring outside of marriage "these misfortunes happen in the best of families, and it is prudent not to point a finger, or stand in judgement"
i am a lone parent and was a teenage mother. it isn't the main bulk of the article detailing what would happen to the babies and unwed mothers that has pissed me off it's the shit before it and the fucking patronising comment at the end. i want to write in and comment but as usual cannot articlute my thoughts in a way that would have any effect. but first i want to know if i'm being over sensitive or is this sexist/benefit bashing/patronising shite?
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am i being over sensitive?
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