Female sexuality is more "fluid"
I've heard this said on many occasions and in my personal circumstances and in friend I know it to seem true. But what I wonder is, is this a response to women always being portrayed as sex objects on tv? Almost like women are a kind of fetish?
I like watching women in porn, I will always watch the women in f/m sex and prefer to watch two women. (no comments on the porn I have stopped now)
Now, when I am walking through town, I will always notice men. I will turn to check out a guy... not a woman. With the porn the women are almost like sex toys.. they look like fun to have sex with. I know how completely objectifying that statement sounds, I really do. That's why am trying to analyze the behavior. I can't imagine being married to a woman, or in a relationship with one. It wouldn't be a sexual relationship. It would be a flatmate with sex...does that make sense?
Now, beyond that I also wonder if our sexuality is actually much more fluid than men's or if really they are so held back by the patriarchy and not being perceived as gay that they can't even admit to themselves that they might be curious about trying to have sex with a man.
What do you think?
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Female sexuality is more "fluid"
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TotoroOnTheCatBus · 12/10/2012 21:17
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