l found out that my credit card account had been cancelled because I haven't used it for so long. Fair enough. But then when the woman on the phone suggested that I apply for a new one, it became clear I can't have one.
DH and I have a joint account that his wage is paid into and all the household expenditure comes out of, and from which we each get paid an equal personal allowance. This allowance is nowhere near the required minimum of £500 per month income for a credit card.
So I don't qualify for a credit card because I have no income except child benefit, which goes from my account into the joint one. I asked if you can have a joint credit card. No. I asked if DH could have a credit card. Yes, because it's his personal income. Even though it's paid into an account in both our names and we are married, it's his personal income. He can apply for me to have a card on his account.
I'm really upset by this. I feel like DH's chattel and to be honest it's easy enough to feel like that as a SAHM anyway. If DH was paying me what he would have to pay a professional to do what I do, I would easily have enough for a credit card. My name is on the mortgage, which is a hell of a lot more than any credit card limit would be.
Its not that I actually need the credit, it's the principle. Isn't this discriminatory against people who are at home full time with small kids (usually women)? I can see (even if I don't agree) that it would be logical if we weren't married, but we are legally bound to each other anyway! Am I over reacting? DH thinks I'm being a bit hysterical about it but I feel really affronted!
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