I think this is the best place for this rather than AIBU as I particularly want a feminist opinion (and feminists' opinions). A male friend of mine has recently started seeing someone who works as a lapdancer. I haven't met her properly, but when talking to mutual friends about her they said she seemed nervous and thought this was because she thought they would judge her due to her job. They said there was no need for this though as they didn't care as long as he was happy. While of course I want my friend to be happy something doesn't sit right with me. This woman has chosen this job (ie she hasn't been forced into the sex industry for drugs reasons for example). To me therefore it seems she has chosen to perpetuate the objectification of women. It's the same reason I can't get on board with the film 'Pretty Woman'. Have I got the wrong end of the feminist stick and am I being horribly judgemental? Constructive criticism welcome!
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