I've come up against a number of situations where women were really suffering due to a bad period or a difficult pregnancy but because they're "not ill" they are expected to soldier on when if they were suffering that much with an illness they would go to bed without a moments' thought. When I was training as a teacher, male students were told by the (female) PE teacher to sit down or go home if they looked off colour but if a female student complained of period pain then they were looked at with contempt as if they were trying to malinger. In one instance a friend of mine was literally green and could barely walk and she was still expected to carry on. (The classes were compulsory and you would lose marks for unauthorised absence). Similarly at work I've seen women struggle on with a difficult pregnancy, sometimes putting themselves and their baby at risk due to stress and overwork, for fear that they will be judged for "slacking." Often it's actually other women making them feel this way.
I believe if you're not well you're not well and you should take time off regardless of what the cause is. I can see however how women who take a lot of time off due to periods or pregnancy might worry about being taken seriously in the workplace. Should it be the norm that pregnancy brings the assumption that you should take it easy and that if you're ill you should take time off? I know there are risk assessments and whatnot but I do think a lot of women feel obliged to act as if they're not pregnant and carry on as normal. What do you think?
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CailinDana · 03/10/2011 08:55
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