and wanted to discuss it, so thought here might be a good place.
I am happily married and have been for 7 years. I felt kind of pressured into changing my surname from the one I was born with (and yy, I know it's my Dad's!) to that of my oh. Not by him, but it was just assumed and I went along with it. I've always prefered to be Ms, but in taking dh's surname peaople assume I am Mrs AND HERE'S THE CLINCHER FOR ME : I often get mail addressed to Mrs Dh's initial and name! This drives me bonkers. We have 2 boys. They have their Dad's surname.
Has anyone done this? How easy/tricky was it? What do you think?
I'd be grateful for any feedback and any tips/suggestions.
Btw, dh wholeheartedly supports me in this. He thinks it is nuts to change from the name you are born with.
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I'm thinking of reverting to my pre-married surname.
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nethunsreject · 18/09/2011 20:27
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