.....when we would refuse to accept such a gendered division of responsibilities in any other walk of life?
I am trying to figure out how to frame this question right, without having the same old WOH vs SAH argument or getting into 'guilt tripping' about people's individual choices.Â
Feminism to me is in large part about equality of opportunity- getting rid of the assumption that someone should be better at something because they are male or female.
And yet becoming a mother or father shunts people into gender-defined roles. And the consensus seems to be that is ok, Â or that changing it is unrealistic.
Bringing up kids requires both supporting them financially and practically and emotionally. There are only 24 hours in the day so we have to make choices. There is no particular reason why a man should be better at the money earning bit and a woman at the caring bit (beyond breastfeeding).But most people still seem to voluntarily split their family responsibilities along traditional lines (either completely or partially) and many say they are happy that way.
Is that ok, or should it change, and if so how?
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