It just conjured up this image of a woman trying to do everything at once and everyone else standing around saying how amazing she was but not picking up any of the slack. I did just look it up on amazon and the description didn't fill me with much hope! Listing all the things she was "coping with" and including marriage - why should marriage be a "coping with" thing unless her husband is rubbish?! And also one reviewer said that the main character was "stupid" because she couldn't have marriage, a family and a career. Men seem to manage that without worrying, it's pretty shit that women still can't.
I might be just being grumpy this evening, it just sounded like it would be annoying.
I don't think men can be super-humans and do everything brilliantly just as women can't. But they, in my experience, don't feel guilty about this or rush around crazily trying to please everyone (and pleasing no-one). They tend to set out their priorities and stick to them and that can lead to women picking up the slack, esp. over housework (I don't so much anymore, but hate the chaos that has engulfed us).