Prompted by lots of things - including the happiness thread, and thinking about marriage and expectations of gender roles, pre and post- children. Also prompted by my general nosiness. I'm thinking that, given that maternity leave is so much more than paternity leave, there must be lots of couples whose relationship started out as a partnership of equals with similar roles ... which then changes completely when you have a baby.
So - if you're on mat leave or a SAHM, and you have a DP who is working full time, how do you divide the housework between you?
Not the childcare, I mean, but the cleaning and the cooking and the washing and so on. If you started out both in full-time employment, has the division of labour changed? Have your expectations about equality in your relationship changed since you had children?
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Why should you do all the drudgery, just because you're at home with the baby?
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amosquitomylibido · 25/08/2011 13:49
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