one of my dd is getting married at the end of this year.
[this was all comfirmed yesterday]
she has asked me to give her away-and i feel very honoured by this.
im the first woman in my family ever to do this and i dont know anyone else who has done this.
actually i was very chocked when she asked me.
anyway-when i been telling people theyve been saying things like"oh thats nice"-but theres a distinct impression that people are not seeing this a proper thing or proper wedding.
i think that if i was a fella i would be congratulated and slapped on the back.
people have asked me what im going to wear and when ive replied"a suit"
theyve replied"oh right"-im now going to tell everyone im going in bodypaint!!
i actually feel quite hurt by all of this-i cant believe this is happening in 2011!
the other aspect of it is-its all going to kick off because some are feeling its her dad wh should give her away-cos he her dad[even though she dont like him/see him]
i know theres going to be a lot of pressure-my dd is saying"fuck em-youre the only person that i want to give me away"-im thinking"omfg-this is going to kick off big time"!
im also looking at it through feminist eyes[so to speak]and feel quite irked!
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