Due to a mix-up with parking instructions, I ended up walking about a kilometre along a mostly deserted city beach at dusk last week.
I noticed a man on the beach between me and my exit and immediately felt nervous.
This is an illogical reaction.
I have no personal experience that could cause me to be nervous of men. Quite the opposite.
The vast, massive majority of men are decent people.
There is no way he felt nervous of me. We are just two people on a beach, so why did I feel nervous of him? I would not have felt nervous of a woman. In fact I would have felt reassured not to be alone.
I am trying to decide - is it because I have been brainwashed to fear men on some level? Or is it because many men are capable of causing harm to women in a way that women are not? Is it because I am a scardeypuss who needs to get a grip?
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Is this a feminist issue?
allhailtheaubergine · 08/06/2011 11:54
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