I had my DS 2 years ago, I had a natural birth but after 2 hours of pushing the nurses realised he was back to back and to had to intervene with forceps and an episiotomy. I healed externally quite quickly but for months after I gave birth I felt like my cervix was constantly hanging out. I eventually did a mirror check and could see my cervix opening cm from my vagina opening so went to doctors and eventually had a round of physio. They said the walls of my vagina were weak and thin from being cut and it was causing everything to slump downwards.
I was discharged last May as the physio was happy that my cervix was strengthening through doing pelvic floor exercise. I haven't had huge problems up until a few months ago when I started unable to hold in my wee. Not huge amounts, but if I sneeze I have to cross my legs, and I can't exercise because running around and straining my body makes me leak. I still can't hold in tampons, they just fall out of my foof. Sex feels ok unless I am a few days away from my period as my cervix hangs a lot lower. My vaginal opening feels like it's gaping though. My husband has no complaints but I am worrying that my problem is worsening. I'm so embarrassed at the state of my vagina that I struggle with my sex drive, I'm so self conscious. I was a very sexual person pre-pregnancy, but I feel like a totally different person now :(
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Will my vagina ever feel normal again?
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IllustratingMummy · 07/07/2019 20:54
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