can anyone advise on how to deal with court re defined contact order and cafcass(3 Posts)
I am totally new to this so please excuse me
Basically I am looking for advice as to what to do regarding my partners ex wife.
My partner has a four year daughter who since the split some 3 years ago he has had good access including overnight contact
At the turn of the year my partner wanted to take his daughter on holiday . His ex was furious and kept messing about with contact .. she sent several emails stating that she wanted to build up contact so that the child could get used to an extended period away from her .. which my partner agreed , unfortunately she kept changing her mind and contact became a major issue
this combined with problems with the childs school led my partner to instigate mediation to which his ex partner willingly engaged with . He followed very strict and detailed contact requirements and his daughter came on holiday
since the holiday the ex has now removed all overnight contact , has issued a legal letter stating my partner must not take the daughter to have her hair cut !!!
He has applied to the court for a defined contact order to put back the agreements at mediation
the ex has sent another legal letter claiming
1) that my partner has threatened to retain his daughter if she did not pick her up from the child paternal grandmother
2) that this child is upset at overnight contact
3) that because he lives 45mins from the child that the amount of time spent travelling does not allow for quality time to be spent with the child
4) that she was bullied at mediation
we have kept all the text messages and emails demonstrating that there was massive contact between my partner and the ex prior to our return from hols. There is no evidence to suggest that the ex ever raised that the child was unhappy
We have all the phone records etc that proove that my partner never threatened to retain the child ,. in fact the opposite is the case the ex suggested this pick up with the paternal grandmother directly and did not involve my partner
I am really worried that the ex is building a case purely on hearsay to imply that my partner has threatend her etc
reading lots of your threads will caffcass / the court look for real evidence to support the exs claim or will they take her at her word
Please can somebody help as to what we should be doing to make sure that my partner does not lose his access ( friday night to Sat evening one long weekend every 8 weeks and holiday
we dont want to discredit the mother in anyway despite all of the lies she is now telling . we just want the relationship between father and daughter put back onto a consistent footing
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