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Fucking bullies!!!

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mrsC4 Sat 07-Jan-17 16:12:12

First of all I'd like to start by saying teenage girls at my dds school take bitching to a whole new level and in recent months my DD has been well involved in it and I've nipped it in the bud and removed her devices if necessary. 
However DD has become the target of the 'queen bee' and her group (whom she was friends with) and every one of them has alienated her because of the queen bee except one girl. 
After having to remove her from school on Friday due to the god awful atmosphere at school (none of it physical but still) and the girl who's stood by her also went home it turns out that her friend has now been told to distance herself from my DD. Leaving her with nobody. 
I fully hold my hands up when my DD is a shit and involved in things but the other parents don't seem to think their previous offspring are in the wrong. Even a screenshot from a message stating 'well it's about fifty of us to two of you so go figure' is apparently none of the schools business because it was outside of school hours. 
There is a lot more to this story but since the whole fallout started I have checked my dds social media and seen the argument unfolding and in this scenario she isn't the instigator and even blocking didn't seem to have made a difference. 
We live in close knit area where we are considered outsiders and it's fairly obvious now that all the families will just stick together - One Mum who I was friendly with has made it painfully clear that she is not interested as long as it's not her daughter being picked on. 
School have apparently read this girls the riot act but given that the hostile behaviour in classrooms wasn't picked up on by teaching staff, I really don't know what else to do. I feel that by sending her back would be throwing her to the lions. 
An acquaintance has told me that this group have said it's my DD who they dislike and that if the other girl wasn't friends with her they'd leave her alone! I don't have proof but even if I did these messages have been sent out of school so would seemingly mean nothing! 

kimlek Thu 19-Jan-17 10:50:22

I'm amazed no one has replied to your post. What an absolute nightmare. Is it worth you calling school and seeing them? Do they have a head of pastoral care? Do you have any friendships with the girls' mothers or are you ostracised too? Don't know what to suggest but it's not acceptable. Wishing you luck!

northernmonkey1010 Thu 19-Jan-17 20:36:20

Pull her out of school and home school

moonchild77 Thu 19-Jan-17 20:45:22

I'm so sorry your daughter is going through that. I'd take her out of school and tell them she won't be back until it's sorted.

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