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sophiewhitexxx Sun 18-Dec-16 21:12:38

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. But something has changed since we had our little girl and it's not nice at all sad

He's starting to really moan at me a lot. About anything. I could give him a palace and he'd moan there's not enough space. I don't wanna loose him but I can't go on like this and he won't change sad

skyblu Fri 23-Dec-16 09:13:57

The only answer here is to talk! You need to voice that you recognise things have changed & you need to talk about why.
Does he still love you?
Is he not enjoying family life/not what he thought it would be? (Was baby planned?)
Are there financial stresses/worries on his shoulders?
Do you & he get enough time together?
Does he get enough of 'his own' time/is he feeling claustrophobic?
All this stuff...you need to talk through honestly, without firing blame at each other.
Life is too short to be unhappy. Sometimes we need to face up & deal with things head on - even if the outcome might not be what we ideally think we want - because there are 3 people that this affects, 3 lives and you all deserve them to be happy ones.
Good luck, hope you can work it out x

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