Birthday party dilemma

(3 Posts)
LexiLexi Tue 13-Sep-16 21:51:40

DS' first birthday is fast approaching. Planning on inviting family & close friends to a small gathering. One hitch. My brother's partner is a histrionic narcissist & has ruined several recent family events with her rudeness. I would love my brother & DNs to be there & I know he is having a hard time at home & needs support. Wwyd?

PotteringAlong Tue 13-Sep-16 21:55:22

You have a gathering with close family and invite her or you don't and don't, but you cannot miss her out without it causing a massive fallout.

I just wouldn't bother having a party but I accept I am miserable about children's birthdays under the age of 4 grin

MsMarple Tue 13-Sep-16 21:59:05

It would be terribly rude of you to invite them without her.

Although she sounds like a nightmare... don't suppose you could somehow find out a date that she is busy already with something and plan the party for then?

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