I have a good friend who I haven't known that long but we attend the same hobby twice a week. Some other friends of her's are having a baby shower for her on Sunday and she has invited me along, just a nice afternoon tea and cake nothing too fancy so I said I'd love too. She has added me to the Facebook group so I could find out time, place ect, and I realised it actually a joint baby shower for her and another of her friends who I don't know/ have never met. Presents will certainly not be expected but I wanted to buy her a nice little present and card but now I'm unsure if I should be buying something for the other lady too? Like I said I've never met her but I almost feel rude turning up without anything for her but something for my friend! Do i get her something small anyway? Wwyd?!
If money is ok, I'd buy the other lady something not too expensive but nice. So, baby hat, gloves, body butter, little book or similar. Actually, a book you yourself enjoyed as a child or your own kids enjoy would be great and not cost a lot at all. Around £5, packaged up nicely, wishing her and baby the very best.
You'll get 'oh you shouldn't have' and then you can all get on with having a lovely time.