I'm new to this but here goes.... I've been with my partner for almost 5yrs We have a 1yr old but every now and then I find flirty texts to other women. They are normally only telling the women they are good looking or beautiful. The latest one is someone he works with I've never met any of his work friends as its a new job but I'm stuck on whether to confront him (&try explain why I was spying) or just brush it off. Is it cheating if he's only telling someone else they are beautiful?