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Yuk - underwear!!!

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Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:27:27

I have just discovered that my boyfriend only changes his underwear once a day - when he showers in the evening he puts clean ones on then sleeps in them all night, doesn't change them in the morning as I thought!! I know I am a bit fussy with cleanliness but is this normal for a bloke? I think it's disgusting!! Help 😥

TeaBelle Wed 16-Mar-16 07:28:32

It sound perfectly normal. What would you prefer?

usual Wed 16-Mar-16 07:29:07

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sonlypuppyfat Wed 16-Mar-16 07:30:20

Oh have a word with yourself I thought you were going to say once a week. How is he dirty. The only odd thing is wearing pants in bed

trollopolis Wed 16-Mar-16 07:30:31

Just take his pants off overnight.

I'm sure you can find a pretext to do so.

Pointlessfan Wed 16-Mar-16 07:30:46

Surely most people change their undies once a day??

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:33:41

I assumed he put clean ones on in the morning!! He sleeps in them as he's more comfortable!! Even if we had jiggy he would still put them back on!! I have only been with people who have put clean underwear on to go to work and after a shower! Pants I mean!! That's why I asked the question although I still think it's yuk!

TeaBelle Wed 16-Mar-16 07:35:26

Using the phrase 'have jiggy' is truly disgusting

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:37:21

😆 I am trying to remain anonymous - if I use words that I normally do someone might know me!!!

MumOnTheRunCatchingUp Wed 16-Mar-16 07:38:52

Oh fgs you sound ridiculous!

Floggingmolly Wed 16-Mar-16 07:40:06

had jiggy. grin

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:41:21

Why so? And I am not goading here - that's why I wanted to ask the question - and get totally honest responses!! I just think that as they let's be honest have a wee and pop it back in they might get a bit yuk!

textbook Wed 16-Mar-16 07:44:49

I think it's gross too OP and definitely wouldn't do it myself. You get sweaty at night, and it just feels much cleaner to shower and have fresh underwear each morning.

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:47:06

Tbh that's what I thought would be the general response - don't get me wrong he puts clean on after a shower but I think wearing them all night deserves a clean pair for work!!

Gileswithachainsaw Wed 16-Mar-16 07:49:07

I think.its pretty gross too.chabge underwear morning and night


diploddycus Wed 16-Mar-16 07:49:44

Changing pants once a day is fine but I think clean ones every morning and no pants at night is the way to go. Wearing sweaty pants you've worn all night to work the next day is a bit gross.

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 07:50:01


peggyundercrackers Wed 16-Mar-16 07:54:51

Most people only change their pants once a day.

WienerDiva Wed 16-Mar-16 07:57:08

I'm with you op

Herewegoagainfolks Wed 16-Mar-16 07:59:42

Bonjour I'm assuming that people have misread you OP, because I'm with you that's not very nice.

Her BF puts on clean pants at bedtime and doesn't change them until bedtime the next day folks confused

Don't worry OP the 'clean pjs every night' folks will no doubt be along to support you soon enough.

I'd buy him lots more pants and suggest he was unappealingly whiffy

phequer Wed 16-Mar-16 08:02:10

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peggyundercrackers Wed 16-Mar-16 08:03:14

Why would he be getting sweaty in bed? Yep I get he changes them at night - I think it's stranger that he wears pants to bed than it is to not change them in the morning.

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 08:06:30

He prefers his tackle supported!!

Bonjour345 Wed 16-Mar-16 08:10:59

I am not like that about other items of clothing as most things you can wear twice before washing apart from gym stuff - it's just the underwear on for 24 hours - he doesn't sweat at night but I thought it was normal to put on clean ones for work!!

TheNaze73 Thu 31-Mar-16 18:17:11

I think it's just a timing issue surely. Are you expecting a costume chang as frequent as Taylor Swift every 3 songs?
I don't think he's at all unusual

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