So, firstly OH and I have great relationship. I have a very stressful job, OH a very physical job.
Our sons have just moved out, so the busyness of them being in the house has stopped.
We find ourselves at a bit of a loss as to know what to do with our "spare" time. I'm finding I'm working, TV, sleep and that's it. I would like to do more physical stuff but OH is tired physically at the end of the day. But watching TV and being home every night is getting boring. I realise once the spring/summer arrives that we will be outside more but I need a distraction to be able to wind down after work.
When the boys were still at home, they were a constant 'distraction' always needing something or telling you something.
OH is feeling much the same, we are becoming couch potatoes.