Well, I was going to post my "Big Christmas Dlilemma" here. Ultimately who was right, Me or DP. Typed it all out told DP I was about to start the thread and he's run through all the possible replies and decided I was right all along!
PMSL!!! No!! Mr Kickarse is a keeper!!! It was over matching Christmas presents for the kids! I suspect He's been a long time lurker on AIBU now tho because his understanding of the fore and against argument was just too good!