This is my first post so i hope this is the right place for it!
DH has a massive exam this week (been studying for it for 2 years and lots of pressure from work to pass). It'll mean a big payrise if he passes. He's feeling quite confident at the moment (only the past few weeks though).
Got a faint bfp on tues but didn't say anything but then got very clear bfp this morning. I stopped bf DD recently so we could start trying but didn't expect anything so quick, not even had an af.
I thought maybe i shouldn't tell DH until next weekend so he can focus on his exam, as it's such a massive massive deal for him, but is that really patronising?? He's not a child is he? Maybe i've answered my own question?
Any thoughts? Not been able to discuss it with anyone so hard to tell what's best.
No i don't think he'd be offended. I'm torn between sharing the news (he'll be really pleased) and driving myself crazy keeping it quiet.
He's feeling confident so i'd feel awful if telling him meant he was distracted, but as i said i'm not sure if that's patronising? Maybe knowing would mesn he could put the exam in perspective? A payrise would be amazing but it's not what life's about is it ?